The best way to choose a rude birthday gift for your lesbian friend is to think about what kind of person she is and what she would like. Whether it's something funny, playful or something more practical you need to choose something that suits her and the situation.
Also think about what the event will be like - will there be other friends, family or work colleagues there? Do you want to get her something she can use at the party or something she can enjoy later?
And of course think about your budget, there is a huge range of options out there from a few pounds to hundreds. If you want to buy her something more expensive maybe you could club together with some others on something special.
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I'm sure you know what she's like better than anyone but here are some thoughts which might help: does she talk about being bisexual or does it seem more private? Or maybe it even makes her feel self-conscious. If it's the sort of thing that she talks and jokes about then it's probably fine to get her something that is obviously for lesbians, but if not maybe choose something more subtle.
What sort of event is it? Will there be lots of people there or just close friends? If you're going out somewhere then she'll probably want to take the gift with her so get her something easy to carry. Or if it's at home then it could be anything really.
