Overview
The best sort of gift for your lesbian girlfriend is something that stands out and is different from the usual stuff. The most important thing is to give her something that shows her how well you know her and that you’ve put some thought into it.
If it’s for a special occasion, make sure it’s relevant to that; she will probably expect a very different sort of gift for your anniversary compared to her birthday or Christmas.
Read on for more detail on this, and also some ideas about what you could do for your next special occasion.
What sort of thing should I buy?
This depends massively on who she is. If she has a good sense of humour the best option is probably something silly and funny, but if she’s more sensitive you might want to stick with something sweet and romantic.
If you’re buying something for your anniversary, the best thing is often something symbolic that represents your relationship. Something meaningful that she can keep forever that will remind her of how much you love her.
The good thing about this kind of gift is that there are so many options to choose from; it could be anything! The key is to find something personal to you both; maybe something related to an in-joke or a fun experience you’ve shared together. Or maybe just a simple object that represents your relationship. The only thing I’d suggest avoiding would be anything edible or short-lasting such as flowers; these things are nice but don’t last long enough to be kept as a long-term memento.
What about the card?
If you’re buying a gift I assume it’s part of celebrating an occasion in which case you’ll need to get a card to go with it. It’s always nice to receive a card, especially from someone close, but I’d say the choice of card isn’t as important as the gift itself.
As I mentioned before, if she has a good sense of humour then get something funny, otherwise, get something cute and romantic. There really isn’t much more to it than that.
Summary
Whatever you buy for her should depend on what sort of person she is and what the occasion is. Sorry if that doesn’t sound very helpful but it really does depend!
